Hi Timmah200,
Thank you for that information, I’ll make a note of the food and water servings vanishing when your friend disconnects for the team also.
Some information for yourself for future reference:
NAT Types
NAT stands for Network Address Translation and is how your router works to translate IP addresses. You will find this listed in your Network settings on your PlayStation. There are 3 types:
NAT 1 / Open
NAT 2 / Moderate
NAT 3 / Strict
Different NAT types can affect multiplayer connections for games. Some believe the best kind of NAT for multiplayer is NAT 1 as it has no restrictions, but does come with it’s own pros and cons for your connection. Most players will be NAT 2, and some may find themselves using NAT 3.
If a host is NAT 1, a NAT 2 or 3 can join them without issue. A host with NAT 2 can have another NAT 2 join or a NAT 1 but NAT 3 will have difficulty and may not connect at all. A host with NAT 3 may have some luck with a NAT 1 joining but may find it difficult to connect with other types.
As you are able to start a game without issue, I would imagine your NAT types are not what is affecting your gameplay but it is likely an error occuring within the game causing the disconnection and is possibly relating to desyncing in some cases too. If you decide to try change your NAT type, I recommend researching the pros and cons beforehand so you can make your own decision on whether it’s something you wish to try.
Multiplayer Saves
You are correct in your assumption that you are the only one who has access to the save data as a host. The multiplayer saves are maintained in a slot on the host’s console. As the host you are able to enter the save without your friend, but they cannot enter the save unless you have started to host it first.
Each slot can hold one single player and one multiplayer save. They use the same seed number and layout in the cartographer.
When accessing a save slot, the “Days Survived” in the main menu refers to the days survived in the single player save. For multiplayer, this stat is shown in the pause menu of the multiplayer game.
If you have any questions about either of those, please let me know and I’ll do my best to answer them.
Please do also let me know if your friend initiating sleep has helped in game at all.