Disconnecting constantly

Continuing the discussion from Connection drops multiplayer:

Same for my friend and I. Constantly getting disconnected. Constantly having to save the game to preserve the little progress we manage to attain between disconnects. We spend more time waiting for tge world to sync than actually playing the game. It’s extra salty because we’re Constantly out of sync when we do get to play. Please give me something to try and fix this or reduce the pain. He asked me to pick a game for us to play and i suggested this. I’m starting to feel real bad that he wasted his money on two copies and we don’t even get to play together as intended.

Having this exact problem I’m also feeling bad he spent 20$ and I feel stupid for also spending 20$ on a broken game,and the sync takes forever